November, 2023
Edited from a birthday letter to friend Carol Schlink...these are reminders for me too!
Happy Seventieth To Me!
Having arrived at the threshold of this decade a month ago, I consider my self well equipped to share a few (maybe not 70) thoughts for the journey.
Stay grateful. I know many will offer that same advice and even suggest I journal about it each night, but some of us are busy! If I manage to think of seven random things to appreciate everyday, note them and move on, I bring up that many smiles. Extras count!
Remember. Memories rise up unexpectedly at times. For others, we need to concentrate. For me, looking at a photo I’ve had out or hanging forever, gazing at a piece of decor, or contemplating the color of a room I painted so long ago can bring up the thought of who Bob and I were when we acquired them. Sometimes, it’s just noting what’s in the cupboards and smiling over the routines I’ve established over the decades!
Reminisce. I do this with a friend, Bob, a family member …I found myself engaged with friends (most older than me) chatting about our childbirth experiences the other day. Amazing what one recalls! Sort of made me feel a lot younger than my body tells me I am!
Go with grace. I envision grace as a kind of anti-freeze for my soul that keeps my juices flowing, slows me down, helps me keep on keepin’ on when I am frozen with worry or pain. Seems like there’s more grace for the taking as we age, if we learn to recognize and engage it.
Stay kind and note the kindness of others, even if their style is not my style.
Stay flexible in mind and body . I once read that it’s how to keep from breaking. Some days my brain requires the flexibility of Gumby, I swear. My body…well that’s maintenance that’s here to stay. Worth it though!
Believe in Love. We’ve been practicing it in some form all our lives. Now’s the time to recognize it is still around and in need of a boost some days. Sometimes I have to go looking , or even ask for it in my subtle or not so subtle ways. Never disappointed if it’s still a daily possibility.
And that is what I can offer as a newcomer to the stage of the seventies. Ever hopeful that good things are yet to come, I carry on and wish you the same. I hope you will find so much joy for the living around endless corners and in unexpected spaces.